Hey bro, if spending time with women, whether as a friend or something more, please treat her properly.

She, the woman, is a queen who has been cared for and protected by her family. With all her beauty and gentleness, she can sometimes be carried away by her feelings, swept by emotions, and without realizing it, lose her way.

Your role as a man is not to control her but to accompany her. Respect her, keep her boundaries, and calmly guide her back to the right path. It’s not easy, bro. Sometimes you’ll have to face storms, get pricked by thorns, and even get hurt. But that’s where the true value of a man is tested, not in his words but in his attitude.

Never take advantage of her. Don’t play with her feelings. Don’t pull and push her heart just to feel desired. If you’re truly a man, you won’t turn someone’s sincerity into a game. You’ll protect her the way you’d want someone to protect your own sister.

Bro, the true measure of a man is not how many women he can approach, but how well he treats the one who trusts him. If you’re given trust, guard it. Don’t let your ego destroy something pure.

I’m not writing this because I’ve been close to many women, but because I’ve learned from what I’ve seen and experienced around me.

I’ve seen many men lose their way, treating women as if their feelings don’t matter. I’ve also seen women fall apart because they trusted someone who didn’t know how to take care of them. I’ve seen many women broken because of men.

In the end, they carry deep wounds and trauma that stay with them for a long time.

This writing comes from reflection, not confession. From a desire for us, men, to be more mature in how we behave.

Not only to know how to approach, but also when to keep distance.

Not only to speak sweetly, but also to take responsibility for every word we say.

Because being a true man is not about having experiences with many women, but about how we respect the one heart that trusts us.