This blog is part of my digital diary of small stories. A personal blog of anything, including daily life, random adventures, college stuff, lessons learned, and life far from home. Can’t promise I’ll post often, but it’s all from the heart. Sometimes it’s non-sense, but I just feel like writing it anyway.

Congratulations. You Won with Your Own Assumptions!

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Dear You,

I must write this clearly, in case you read it someday.
I do not know how deep your wounds or past traumas go,
but one thing is clear. You always start from your own assumptions.
You never ask, never clarify, you just believe the version of the story that plays in your head.
And the funny part is, you are convinced it is the truth.

If only you could slow down for a second and actually listen,
maybe you would realize how much you have misunderstood.
But that is your choice.
And I am not responsible for fixing the story you built by yourself.
I have learned that not everything deserves an explanation,
especially to someone who has already decided not to discuss.

I often told you that you are overconfident, and you might think I was only making a joke.
You did not realize it so well. To be honest, I found many potential areas that are truly possible to improve upon.
All the potentials are like gold. I really want you to improve and help you to the next level of yourself. You really have it!
But, anyway.. I don’t think that you can trust me.

oh BTW, I am an adaptive and communicative person.
I can connect easily with many kinds of people.
But I also have a “premium access” policy when it comes to my boundaries.
Not everything about me is measurable,
and definitely not everything is guessable.

So do not try to play or guess me.
You will only end up exhausting yourself.
I am not a puzzle for you to solve,
and I am not a mirror for you to reflect your own wounds on.

There are things you can only understand if you are truly present,
not if you are just observing from your own lens.
I am not here to prove anything.

But that is okay. I am not here to be liked by everyone.
I do not need validation, I do not need applause,
I do not need a stage just to prove what I am capable of.

Even without all that, I can still stand tall.
I can still grow, still create, still move forward.
Because my worth does not depend on who sees it. It is already there.

But above all that,
I want to say something simple and honest.
I want to deliver my apologies.
I apologize if my words or actions have ever made you uncomfortable.
I am sorry if I crossed a line I should have respected.
I just want to say I am sorry.
No explanations, no justifications.
I know I made mistakes, and I take full responsibility for them.
I truly hope you can accept my apology,

I have no anger, no hate, no bitterness left.
Only peace, clarity, and a quiet wish
that both of us can move forward lighter than before.

So yes, congratulations.
You won with your own assumptions,
and I accept everything as it is.

Take care,
and thank you for everything that once was.


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